If we ask our elderly parents about their preferences for living arrangements, it comes as no surprise that many would like to remain in their own homes. Actually, a high percentage of the elderly population does live in their own homes until it is no longer an alternative.

If this is the case with your parents, then you may be faced with how to go about making this a viable option, especially if there are no family members with the time, distance or resources to act as caregiver. Some people may think that any outside assistance is a threat to their independence or an invasion of their privacy. When your parents are both living in their own home together, direct your attention to the parent who is less in need. For example, if your Father needs the most care, suggest to him that it would be helpful if your Mother had some assistance with cleaning, cooking, etc, thereby freeing her to be available for him.

Hiring someone to help with housekeeping is less threatening to their independence than hiring someone initially to assist with personal care. If you place emphasis on getting help with the housework, they may be more receptive. If they can develop trust with the caregiver, then they are more likely to accept assistance with their personal care when it is needed. One of the most difficult times of our lives as adult children will be helping our parents as they experience the decline of social interaction, health and independence.

For more ideas and information on helping your parents with Home Care assistance contact us today!